Relationships are hard. Even the best ones go through tough times. But when a relationship is truly over, there's often one sign that's impossible to ignore.
According to marriage counselor Dr. John Gottman, the number one sign that a relationship is over is when one partner** stops trying to repair it.**
'When one partner gives up on trying to resolve conflict, it's a sign that they're no longer invested in the relationship,' says Gottman. 'Instead of trying to work things out, they're simply going through the motions.'
Other signs that a relationship is over include:
ack of communication:* You don't talk to each other about important things, or you only talk about superficial topics.
ack of intimacy:* You no longer have sex, or your sex life is unsatisfying.
ack of trust:* You don't trust each other, or you're constantly suspicious of each other.
ack of respect:* You don't respect each other's opinions, feelings, or needs.
ack of fun:* You don't enjoy spending time together, or you find yourself dreading spending time together.
If you're experiencing any of these signs, it's important to talk to your partner about your concerns. If your partner is unwilling to work on the relationship, it may be time to face the fact that it's over.
It's never easy to end a relationship, but it's important to remember that you deserve to be happy. If you're in a relationship that's no longer working, it's time to let go.
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